Sunday, April 26, 2009

Women and Self Esteem - Stop Chasing Your Dreams - One Key Suggestion

Is this you?

Popular culture has told you to create a vision board. Everyone is doing it. You are supposed to collect representatives of everything you want, pin it on a corkboard and sit in front of it in a dreamy state and get all tingly thinking about having it all.

But... rather than feeling all grateful and expansive, your vision board simply irritates and frustrates you because you feel disconnected to saying thanks for stuff you don't have.

Besides, you don't have time to flip through magazines looking for perfect pictures of the perfect stuff to cut out.

And another thing... what's with the affirmation thing anyway? You feel like a fraud standing in front of the mirror saying you are beautiful and you love your belly...

So, you ask? "Am I the only one who doesn't get this?" Does this mean I miss out on all that Law of Attraction stuff?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you... You are perfectly fine. You can relax... There is another path to the top of the hill, and it is beautifully simple.

I offer One Key Suggestion

Simply be here now.

Just think about this moment in time. Think about all the abundance you have in this moment. Take your focus off the past, off the future and just be here now.

I know and you know this is not new... but somehow, we get caught up in thinking we need to take action and follow the trends.

Right now, everyone seems to be creating vision boards, and that 's great... vision boards are wonderful and powerful tools, but you need to be in the right mindset to get the most out of them.

Getting what you want doesn't have to be work... You don't have to do anything... Just be in your moment... be aware... be here now... What could be simpler than that?

Whatever task or circumstance you find yourself engaged in, look for your blessing. Just be grateful for what is right now. You don't have to write in a journal, you don't have to clip pictures; there is nothing extra that you need to spend time on.

Simply say thanks for what is now.

The beauty of this concept is that once you find your center and balance, you will get to that quiet inner state of 'gratitude in the moment' and the Law of Attraction will line up more events, thoughts, circumstances for you to be grateful for... momentum will take over.

You don't have to chase your dreams; they will come to you once you place your focus on what you are grateful for in this moment. I once heard that nothing that you really desire is to be found upstream anyway, yet this is exactly the way most of us approach life.

Our desires are all downstream... just allow yourself to let go and go with your beautiful flow.

Regardless of your present circumstances, you have much to be grateful for at this exact moment. Put your focus there and stop overcomplicating your life.

When you are in a mindset to take more on, everything you need is waiting for you.

Relax... appreciate... feel grateful... invite more to be grateful for into your experience.

Namaste.

Wishing you Peace & Abundance...
Joyce Lee
"Your Life Empowerment Coach"

2008 http://joyceleelifecoach.com/

Joyce Lee is an experienced and certified Life Empowerment Coach, Woman's Wellness Guide and Law of Attraction Practitioner, specializing in supporting women seeking a deeper, richer life experience through their personal development program.

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